May 11, 2012
Gay/Sexualities
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GESTURES (Photo credit: IntangibleArts)
1> Gestures: Most important of all a guy looks into the body language of a guy whom he is dating. So, don’t give a chance to make your feelings and thoughts to go grave but bring them alive through proper gesturesthat makes your communication comfortable without any signs of nervousness. Don’t scratch here and there or gaze some third person .So just Chillax!
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2> No untidy Please: I know how it hurts but before everything look as clean as possible at least to attract a housefly 
Don’t give reasons before hand for anything like unkempt hair, bad odour emerging from mouth and body, visible stains on your teeth, oily face and so on.
3> Eating maniac : If you god at eating something please play it safe at home and no over eating anything as if you were fasting freak. Even if you have a glass of Beer or wine, have it little so that no one notices it up. No finger entry on the left over’s !
4> Face it Bold: Although this is a gesture to be noted gays are mostly face conscious and we know that it’s the index of mind too. Hiding anything proves you costly just because of that ugly smile or expression you throw on him. A sunny smile takes you a mile away J
5> Skin and nail sensitious : When it comes to skin no fake tan or excessive make up which results in an absolute turn off. No circus is happening there and don’t be a clown to him. And make him think that you haven’t used face wash for weeks! Nails should be cut and filed properly so that you don’t hurt him while shaking your hand. Trim you beard or keep it fully shaved but no tit bits here and there.
6> Colour match: if you are good at dressing , fine then otherwise get some tips from close friends on how to dress well and keep something in match between your shirts, pants, belts, shoes…Cottons if you want a office look and jeans and belts for that blokey look
7> Artificial jewels: our boys are on all time high when it comes to chains, chains with single stone and sporty studs etc. Get to know what suits you well and fit it correct so that it makes a perfect symbol
8> Carry Bags/sticks/umbrella: You are on a date. Remember! Don’t mix it up with any early shopping and carry some bags and weighing yourself heavy. Pink stuffs suit well and carry an umbrella if its raining and for oldies a stick with a hat makes guys go crazy
9> Spend thrifts: Don’t spend unnecessarily to make a show off. Boys are brilliant and don’t fall for money. Keeping it budget while dating helps you in all the ways but at the same time don’t be like a miser. Open your wallet for buying drinks or so and don’t wait for him to spend on food you munch.
10> Talk safe: It’s a date and be cautious. Don’t ask him for sex in a first throw and don’t flatter him through your angel wordings. Marriage, outing, hooking up would have been discussed on-line so don’t repeat the same debate here. Let him take some time to open up and don’t question him like a FBI squad.
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May 3, 2012
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Queers (Photo credit: paulinaclemente)
He is alone and gaythen be sure that he is fain do as you ask. Yes, it’s true. He is 40 + but still alone. Why will he avoid anyone when he is still not able to understand his own body and mind?
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To make it simple…A gay after certain age loses his sheen and is no worth to the fun makers in the party who kick-ass every party involving singles of all ages. Being alone and gay in gay community not just means freedom to play music loud inside four walls or party alone but it means a lot of things for the fellow singles. For some, it’s a sense of serenity and for some it’s a peace of mind. Whatever it is, a body loses its mind and control over anything that comes across after certain time. So it’s really tough time dealing with mind that lacks something to digest. One can’t be dependent of things that are not his. It’s just a body which he can buy for some time to feel a flesh of all time and forget that flesh after some time it is only he who sleeps on the bed and no around. Unfortunately I have come across few gay singletons recently who say that they are singles because they have some birth defects/diseases which hamper their relationship and cannot live long life too.
Socially meeting or boozing and having no strings attached are the norm of many singles. A sense of losing climbs up every now and then. It’s quite common to see single guys from the community traveling extensively and try to make friends so that they feel a sense of security to kill the time that brings loneliness. After all, the glitz and glamour has something called or being promiscuous too. It’s there in their genes and interestingly they would have adopted a bit of negativity in their life, especially during childhood or early adolescence. One cannot go against the bitter experiences or moments that keep haunting in the later stages of life but the taste remains same even when he goes for a new leash of life. Most of the singletons are victim of it and they know how to lead a life of miseries and are very much social able than before. They would have been turned into preachers who give life lessons to their friends and colleagues and interestingly turn care givers and institutions for their well wishers. They keep themselves clean and generally dislike fallacious arguments and try to be honest in whatever they do. A sunny disposition of them makes everyone think of him being the happiest of all although it hides a series of sorrow. They are the ones for follow cleanliness and preoccupy themselves with get-tog ethers and movie to make sure that they are spending quality time altogether. Although few are good at one night that is being one night standers others are good at making friends without benefits.
Distance relationship is what breeds well among gay singletons who are good at experimenting life and never or not interested in experiencing life. Cam to Cam talks and virtual sex is all that one tries to make he is working or worthy in being single and most of those experiences ends virtually and never make a real life entry. The place they reside or live is like abode for them and filled up with whatever that makes them to break the time in leisure and few art possessions do make an entry there with expensive gadgets [not to forget]. It’s their quality of being judgemental in being spendthrifts that saves the penny they spend for. Of late< I have come across few gay singletons turning into socialites who bring a good bungalow or manors where they organize parties to meetings and symposiums to comedy shows. In fact it’s a good place to wine and dine which eventually makes people to appreciate things that are not straight. Sadly, at the end of the day they sleep alone with a pillow next to them to feel heaven under. And not to forget those crazy pet lovers who make it all with pets with them before they hit the hay.
Lastly, its death which is inevitable and mainly singletons give it a miss and don’t think much about it in as much as daring death unless they suffer from something or catch up with something. No matter how serious they are at work place they need friends to goofy with at times and make life simply best. I am not sad and am not serious—no sepulchral me !
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November 11, 2011
Gay/Sexualities
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“Sexual assault is to be blamed on the abusers and not the victims”
As if forgotten memory got wakened by a dream, gays all over the world are making little efforts to think about slut walks in the coming days. Like Capitalists exploitation of working class or the unfairly treatment shown towards lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual and Trans gender, there are considerable masses which are against alternate forms of sexuality and are ready to sexploit the weaker sections of the society. Victimization is not just confined to physical abuse but sexually too. The acts of LGBT look like misdemeanors to them and are sometimes ready to charge them of felonies. And the vital reason for the powerful and active dislike shown by people is because of the sexual orientation they possess and not because of the acceptable/unacceptable behaviors. Read the rest…
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November 6, 2011
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“People who possess a true inner beauty, their eyes are a little brighter,
their skin a little more dewy. They vibrate at a different frequency.”
- Cameron Diaz
Internal beauty is how good you are (emotional, attitude related, behavioral response) and External beauty is how you look (cute, sweets, cool, hot….) .External beauty is seen through eyes and Internal beauty is understood by heart. Both these beauties define a person in general. They are connected to such an extent that they are deciding factors for most of your development in relationships. It compensates each other so that there are no differences that make you miserable. If you think good and be optimistic about the things you do it is reflected through your external beauty. No matter what all defects you find in you in comparison to those models and celebrities, you will be sitting pretty. It’s all in you to identify about yourself, keeping those plus factors on the sky (level headed) and to forget that flaws in you. All round development of you takes place when you keep all those woes with your body aside and try to be as if nothing has happened. Then you feel the difference and feel as light as kite that flies high in the sky. Read the rest…
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October 31, 2011
Gay/Sexualities
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SAY NO TO SINGLETON
In the words of William Blackstone, “Men was formed for society, and is neither capable of living alone, nor has the courage to do it”.
Not all agree to Williams words but in one or the other way you find it is true. When correctly analyzed, we can say that Man being the symbol of Strength and Sexuality, it is relatively impossible to stay away from the society which gave him his birth to discover the nature as a whole. But in the search of lonesomeness, he will definitely lose his courage. Read the rest…
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